Divorce Recovery

From Surviving to Thriving

From Surviving to Thriving

Depending on where you are in your life, opening yourself to growth means pushing yourself to do those things you know are good for you, even if they seem hard or scary. It means starting to say, “yes, sure” instead of “no, I can’t.” And then, one day, you’ll wake up and realize that all that work you did on yourself has made you strong and resilient . . .

Do You Need to Forgive in Order to Heal?

Do You Need to Forgive in Order to Heal?

Women have often asked me whether it is necessary to forgive their ex-husbands in order to heal and that’s a question that has stymied me in the past. But in researching forgiveness, I’ve come up with a fresh approach, complete with a healing technique, that can help.

Wedding Band Blues: What To Do with Your Wedding Ring When the Marriage is Over

Wedding Band Blues: What To Do with Your Wedding Ring When the Marriage is Over

What is the meaning of a wedding ring? As a universal symbol, those few ounces of fine metal and precious stone are supercharged with significance. You received it at a pivotal moment, the heart of your relationship, when you were filled with love, excitement and anticipation. And every day after that, every moment if you wore your ring constantly, it signalled your position as a wife and as someone who is loved . . .

Don't Blame Yourself if You Didn't See it Coming

Don't Blame Yourself if You Didn't See it Coming

When something happens that doesn’t fit the pattern, we don’t let it penetrate. That new odd piece of information just skitters off our brains and we reject it. It takes time for us to be able to let it in, particularly when doing so threatens our sense of security . . .